In my book The Treasure: How to change the world, I write about Energistic* Leadership® that I developed in 2007 and one of the challenges, Energistic Entanglement – which is when our energies that we we transmit through our thoughts, feelings, choices and actions are intertwined and leaving us entangled and less empowered and less capable of acting out from our own needs and starts to act out from what other people want. The energy transmitted is the energy Angela Ahrendts refer to in her TedxTalks as human energy: The Power of Human Energy. When our energies are entangled we loose focus and track on own needs, we stop to listen to our inner wisdom, and either try to take control of our outside world or give in and follow the streams of other people’s hopes and dreams. The energy itself builds up between us and other people, places and situations and it get harder, harder to gain anything constructive results and no matter how hard we try it feels as though nothing really works (parents with teenage kids are the first to agree on this point – it can be helped, I do this all the time both in business, performance but also with my Sprouting Energies program for children and teenager in my spare time).
The Energistic Entanglement happens when we stop listening to our selves and start to guess and/or control what the other person think or should think and/or do. In that very action we transmit energy towards the other person or situation with a want, a demand, an imposing energy. Subconsciously that other person feels that energy and rebels and/or struggles to be freed from that imposing energy. Most people feeling compromised unwillingly will ‘fight back or run’. This is what starts most fights, battles, and alike to be free from an imposing energy which will feel like an opponent in the real world. So we suddenly subconsciously fight to win and to be back in control and if possible being the one with the power.
If unaware of this entanglement and it is not undone, this is what is creating distances and unresolved issues between people and relationships. This all happens unconsciously for most people. (An unconscious entanglement can happen through true forgiveness.) Once aware of your own energies, how to manage own energies and untangle own energies from others’ will be truly free and be able to feel own emotions, sends what is rights for others and how to interact in all given situations. Essentially, we are then able to create the life we truly want for ourselves while creating a better life and world for others. This works in all fields of life: work, strategy, performance and our private life.
The ability to not only entangle or untangle energies, but also to manage these energies and to create a certain result and learning to sense and being consciously aware and able to transmit impactful energies to make a positive change is what I call Energistic Leadership and Impact Performance®. Once we refine our Energistic skill set we can and will improve our relationships, our creativity, our ability to manifest our visions and what we dream about will happen much faster in better ways than we dare to dream about.
Well, what the above has to do with quantum entanglement? What Gregg Braden, other philosophers and many scientists are talking about is the fact that we are all connected through the energies we transmit. When undefined and no demands nor expectations are cluttering up our energies we are still sending our energies with our thoughts, emotions, choices and actions. Therefore, I also argue that every one of these create an impact. We can choose the impact in accordance to what we allow ourselves to think, feel and choose.
If untrained in sensing energies, we can still time to time feel when something is wrong, get a hunch what to do or not to do, we ‘know’ there is a certain ambiance in the room, and we most of the times ‘know’ how our lived ones feel when in the same room with them. Yet do we start to guess, control etc.. the entanglement begins. Darling what are you thinking of? Nothing! Nothing? You can’t think of nothing?! And then the pushing and running starts… That aside we also sometimes ‘know’, dream, or feel something is wrong or right around our loved ones far from us. That is what the short movie below is showing us. I love there is a movie about quantum entanglement. Further down I am telling you my personal story of how this can work in a most positive way to create a better life when trained and aware of energies around us.
Here are a few examples of Entanglement from my life: 10 years ago I lives in China. I knew my oldest younger brother was traveling to South America with his girlfriend and family in law. One night I dreamt he was afraid, ill, crying, curled up in my lap as a small boy – not as the young man he was/is – he was in danger. Waking up I called home, called him, wrote an email. Tried everything I could to be sure he was alright. A week later we got in touch with him. We were told he had climbed a mountain too fast, was really ill up in the heights but was then down and ok. The same thing happened just this very weekend. I dreamt one of my best friends cried and needed support to walk and to live. I wrote her from Norway saying that I was there for her if she needed me. She answered – thank you having a most emotional weekend. It helps just hearing from you. These are just a few example from my life as highly intuitive. It’s all the time… It also saves me from trouble;) once I dated a man, he was perfect I thought, one day working with a client doing intuitive work with a business clients and his strategies, I suddenly saw a picture of the man I dated, a woman, and looked at the time. I then set aside the image to focus on the work with my client. When I saw my date that evening I asked him if he was sure he was single? And asked him what woman he was talking too at 2pm that afternoon. It was his wife… had I not been trained I might have ignored the thought and simply believed it was my insecurities that had played me. But having trained and worked with my Energistic Skills, intuitive and psychic abilities I was sure and questioned him with an assertiveness that could not be brushed away with a smooth smile.
In case you are wondering, I stopped dating him immediately and felt grateful for my trained intuitive and psychic abilities not only work when advising my clients but also supporting and guiding me in my private life supporting me in living a safe, healthy and happy life.
I daily experience this and obviously work with my intuitive and psychic abilities for a living… I see these skills as a natural ways of sensing Quantum Entanglements and Energistic Entanglement. Therefore, I love it when science make it natural. That is why I can train people in this – as much as its a gift it’s also a skill and the energy is there for a fact and we can go beyond sustainable and healthy growth once we learn to navigate in this new field – a field actually known to man for thousands of years yet first being accepted by society now science can start to explain some of it.
An important thing to remember when working with energy is that what you transmit you also attract– the law of attraction, simple and well known quantum physics. The key is that the more ethics, discipline and heart put into your work with energy and the skills to manage the energies, the sharper and clearer your skills get – but also the more happy and self aware we get. Because if we make wise and compassionate decisions in our lives these are the people and situations we attract.
So being aware of Energistic Entanglement – how to stay free of attaching your energies to other people and staying free of other people’s transmitted energies is the first step to living a better life. Then second step is training your awareness and ability to read the energies around you. Mainly, if you start with ethics and discipline you will always be centered in your own energy and will attract less and less energies to be entangled in in the first place – if all people learned to stand strong in own energies and stay detangled from the energies of others we would have a better world with no or little conflict. its a responsibility but also an immense capacity where we can create almost everything we want.
Talking quantum physics, energy does not know distance – so everything is possible anywhere in the world! Not even the sky is the limit – but then we are starting to talk about multiple realities and dimensions etc… and that is another post another day:)
The best of energies,
Christel Rosenkilde Christensen
*the term ‘Energistic’ is the concept I developed back in 2007-8 and use for courses and workshops to assist my clients. ‘Energetic’ is what people normally refer to when they talk about energy.